**Title: Unity of Polygamist Au: The Realities Exposed in ‘Kody & Robyn Brown’s CRUEL
DEMANDS, ARROGANT WEDDING EXPOSED BY Family, Janelle THROWS DIG AT
ROBYN’** When “Sister Wives” first aired, it was promoted as a show aimed at presenting a
positive image of polygamy to the world. The family gathered to watch the pilot, which was intended to bring polygamy out of the shadows and into a more accepted light. However, as the series progressed, it became evident that the show did not fulfill this mission. Instead, it highlighted the complexities and inherent unfairness of the lifestyle. Ben Brown, Kody’s nephew, has recently been discussing older episodes of “Sister Wives” on TikTok, despite never having watched the show before. His reactions to the first season, particularly to Kody and Robyn’s wedding, reveal a lot about the unfair dynamics within the family.
Ben points out how different Robyn’s wedding was compared to those of the other wives. Unlike them, Robyn received a grand wedding with all the trimmings, including a fancy dress and a lavish reception. The other wives were not given the same treatment, and Robyn attributes this disparity to the demands of the show. Ben criticizes Kody for forcing his other wives to participate in events they were uncomfortable with, solely for the sake of the show and Kody’s ego. A notable example is the dress episode, where Kody ultimately picks out Robyn’s dress after she had already gone shopping with the other wives.
This act highlights Kody’s need for control and the show’s manipulation of the family dynamics. The wives, often in ugly brown dresses, are not truly bridesmaids but rather advisors, a role that further emphasizes their lack of autonomy. Janelle’s Instagram posts subtly shade Robyn by alluding to her constant damsel-in-distress act, a sentiment echoed by Christine, who speaks about having courage. These posts remind viewers of past seasons where Janelle criticized Robyn for relying too heavily on Kody. Janelle, who values her independence, often clashed with Robyn’s more dependent nature.
The reality of the wedding planning was far from the fun and excitement it was meant to be. Christine, who had just given birth and needed attention and care, was instead dragged around to help with wedding preparations. This highlighted the unfairness and power dynamics within the family, with the other wives feeling marginalized and forced to participate in something that only served to elevate Robyn and Kody. The wedding episode, and Kody’s decision to pick out Robyn’s dress, underscored the conflict and illustrated why love in polygamy is often divided rather than multiplied. Robyn claims she was pressured by the show to have such an extravagant wedding, but her actions suggest she felt entitled to it as Kody’s “soulmate.”
Kody, driven by his narcissism, wanted a grand wedding to showcase his status and his new wife. Ben’s observations about the show reveal the emotional turmoil experienced by the wives. On the surface, they put on a brave face, but couch scenes often show their true feelings of discomfort and sadness. This manipulation and control by Kody, who forces the wives to participate in activities against their will, is a recurring theme. Janelle’s comments about becoming your own hero reflect her belief in self-reliance. She contrasts her independence with Robyn’s dependence on Kody, highlighting the differences in their personalities and approaches to polygamy. Janelle’s feminism and work ethic often put her at odds with the traditional roles expected in their community.
Overall, the show “Sister Wives” and the specific episode about Kody and Robyn’s wedding expose the deep-seated issues within polygamy. The women are often pitted against each other, leading to jealousy, insecurity, and constant competition for Kody’s attention. Janelle’s insistence on rescuing herself is a defense mechanism against the realization that Kody cannot meet her needs. This dynamic is not just a reflection of the individuals involved but a testament to the dysfunctional system of polygamy itself.
